My name is Freya, I am 24 years old from New Zealand. I spent five years studying for a law degree and the last year of that degree completing two study exchanges in Bergen, Norway and Tübingen, Germany before moving to Edinburgh. I struggled a lot with knowing what to do post-University and had no idea whether I wanted to pursue a legal career. I loved studying law, but knew that practising law would be very different. I was on a walk one chilly January evening in Edinburgh when I passed the Scottish Child Law Centre and was immediately interested. The following week I emailed the Centre and asked to come in for a chat to learn more about what they do as a charity. The lovely Denise was so welcoming and informative that I knew I would like to get some experience from this charity. A month or so later, I had secured my full-time volunteer placement and began that 9-5 grind!
I was mainly working under the solicitor Briony who is an absolute gem – conscientious, warm, open and hilarious. The first day I sat in with her and did some practice calls with users of the service. This is the main role for a volunteer – to be the first point of contact for the SCLC. We answer the phones, take down the caller’s contact information, succinctly summarise their case and then write up their query.
I could write up what my other duties involved but I feel a lot of other volunteers have done that. So instead, I will tell you the greatest piece of advice I learnt from my time at the SCLC.
When someone one the phone is angry, don’t be authoritative with them, because that gives them no control. Their anger is probably just a cry for desperation. Instead, simply ask “what can I do to help you, what do you need from me”. Put the control back in their hands.
My month at the SCLC taught me that practising family law is as much about psychology as it is knowing the law. It is vital to be able to read your client, assess their motivations, cut through the manipulation but above all, to always strive to help the most innocent person in family law situations – the child.
Thank you for creating such a relaxed, welcoming and happy environment SCLC!
Freya Sawbridge, May 2018